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Please join our Torah Center Sunday through Thursday  nightly 9:00 – 10:00 pm followed by Arbit

Shabbat Candle Lighting

Friday, July 1

Deal, NJ -8:11pm
Brooklyn, NY - 8:12pm
Aventura, FL - 7:58pm


Eiruv Hotline (732) 660-1001

If you would like to donate a newsletter, kiddush, seuda, or breakfast, please contact the Synagogue office at (732) 531-0535 or email us.

5776 Summer Weekday Schedule

  • Shahrit
  • Sunday – 8:00 & 9:00 am
  • Monday & Thursday – 6:50 & 8:00 am
  • Tues., Wed. & Friday – 7:00 & 8:00 am
  • Daily Shahrit is followed by Breakfast & Hok L’Yisrael class
  • Minha & Arbit
  • Sunday – Thursday - 6:45pm & 7:15 pm



Attention Women: Please join us for class by Mrs. Violet Chkouri Monday mornings at 11:15 am


Shabbat Shelah Prayer & Class Schedule

Friday July 1
Shir Hashirim & Minha 6:30, 6:45, 7:30, 8:00 pm
Candle Lighting 8:11pm
Shabbat July 2
Shahrit 6:10, 6:45, 8:00, 9:00 & 9:00 am
Minha Gedola 2:00pm
Rabbi's Class 6:40pm
Minha followed by Seuda Shelisheet 7:40pm
Arbit 8:50pm
Shabbat Ends 9:11 pm

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Summer 2016 YOUTH MINYAN

Minyan-Minions Club:

For those who do whatever it takes to get to shul each week, we introduce the E.J Safra Minyan Minions Club. Members of the club will earn “money” towards our Grand Chinese Auction and special Giveaway prizes- Stay tuned for the Grand Chinese Auction Date!


Early Bird Golden Ticket Jackpot:

Come before 9:15 and receive ONE exclusive Safra bar. Will YOUR Bar contain the Golden Ticket?? Only one way to find out...


1-3-5 Torah Reading Program:

Reach new levels as you read from the Torah. You will earn unique prizes for each level you reach. The Rabbi is available to help you prepare and can be reached at 732-580-2925.



Earn tickets by participating, praying, reading, and more. Use your tickets in our weekly raffle to win awesome prizes.


Challenge of the Week:

Take home a challenge question each Shabbat. Bring back the question answered by the afternoon and earn a key. Will your key be the one to open the treasure chest? If so you will be the winner of the prize inside!


Girls’ Program and Boys’ Program:

We’ve got a place for everyone! Beginning at 9:30, we have exciting and interactive parasha classes for younger boys and girls.


Shabbat Class:

Each week there will be a kids’ class one hour before mincha. The class will include learning, stories, fun, prizes, and more.

Parashat Shelah

Act As If...

While in the desert, the Jewish people wanted to send spies into the Land of Israel to make sure that the land was safe to enter. The spies came back with a very negative report on the land's condition and the spies boldly said:

"...we were like grasshoppers in our eyes, and so we were like in their eyes!" (Bamidbar 13:33)

The spies strongly felt that the current inhabitants in the Land of Israel viewed them as people who were very small in size and who could easily be conquered.

But this isn't how it was. The spies first felt that they were like grasshoppers in their own eyes. Only after they themselves felt that they were like grasshoppers did they believe that others perceived them as grasshoppers in their eyes.

This extra piece of information can have a life-changing impact on all of us. People will always perceive you exactly how you perceive yourself.

Most people go through life trying to have others think of them in a certain way. Their daily goal literally consists of making sure everyone has a certain impression of them. But the real you is one who stares back at you in the mirror. That's you - and there's no amount of acting that will ever change that.

Ironically, the way you see yourself is the exact way in which you'll think how others feel about you. And the only way to ever change how you think others view you is to actually change the way in which you see yourself. Doing this can make all the difference in the world.

Remember, as long as you really think of yourself as a grasshopper, you will walk around thinking others view you the same way. Whether you think of yourself as insecure, unattractive, unambitious, or any other negative belief - you will live with the reality that others view you in the exact same way.

The only way ever to change how you think others perceive you is to first change the way you see yourself. The secret isn't to get them to change their view of you. Rather, it's to change the way you see yourself and then the world will see you in this whole new light.

The quick and simple way to immediately change how you see yourself is done with action - not by thought or desire. Start acting in a manner consistent with who you want to become, you'll then see yourself more and more like this person, and you'll "notice" how all those around you seems to just naturally follow your lead.

                                                                                                            Shabbat Shalom,

                                                                                                           Rabbi Isaac Farhi

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